Last week I attended the Permanent Building Fund Advisory Council in behalf of the College of Western Idaho where I am a trustee. I came early to listen to several higher education intuitions present their building needs and wishes. I know 4 of the 5 council members and many of their staffers. Before the meeting, many people shook my hand saying “It is great to see you!” One person said, “You are completely normal. You are back! Good for you!” I laughed and said, “I was ‘never’ normal, but, seriously, I will never be the same again. 20% of my brain is dead, and I have residual issues that will never get better. It is what it is. It could be worse.” My statement was met with stunned silence and then a uncomfortable “Wow! But you seem so normal today.” I said, “This is my new normal. I have issues that people do not even know about, but that is OK. I just try to live my life every day like it would be my last day.” Today at my latest therapy session, ...
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